Społeczeństwo
To jest AŻ śmieszne, ile osób wie lepiej,
chociaż nigdy mnie nie znały.
Ile osób „zna” mnie,
chociaż nawet nie próbowały?
Jak bardzo można być zapatrzonym we własną perspektywę,
żeby nie dostrzegać innych?
Jak dużo różnic można zobaczyć w człowieku,
mimo że nawet się nie odezwał?
Zakładają coś - czego nie ma.
Wyrabiają sobie zdanie o tobie -
nie mając pojęcia o niczym.
Szczerą odpowiedź nazywają kłamstwem,
a prawdę - propagandą.
Ciekawe, czy gdyby choć raz żyli tak jak ty,
nadal byliby tacy pewni swojego zdania?
Coś, czym pragniesz się podzielić,
staje się lenistwem, błędem
albo inną propagandą polityczną,
mimo że nie było o niej nawet słowa.
No trudno.
Takie społeczeństwo
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Welcome to reality. U may not like it.
Dziena hiena
Knowing reality and accepting it are two different things.
Bloody accepting what you cannot change its only way to fulfill your life
Dziena hiena
Perhaps. But how can you accept what you cannot change if you don't know whether it truly cannot be changed?
Bloody
Considering the context of your poem, do you belive you can change people? Or make them to change their behaviour towards you? When it comes to close relations I belive it may be possible due to healty, cooperative life. But when it comes to strangers, masses, randoms doesn't seem possible. Most of ppl are prejuduice and judgemental and this is how has always been. At the end u cannot change ppl but u can replace them.
Dziena hiena
I think there is a difference between changing someone and influencing their behaviour. I don't believe we can control who people become, but I do believe our actions, boundaries and the way we treat them can influence how they behave towards us. People aren't static - they learn, mature and sometimes change their views because of the people and experiences they encounter. And even if you can't change everyone, that doesn't mean you can't change anyone.
I also don't completely agree with “you cannot change people but you can replace them”. Replacing someone is an option when a relationship is unhealthy or when the other person refuses to change, but it doesn't prove that change is impossible. Sometimes people change precisely because someone gave them a reason to reconsider their behaviour.
And saying that most people are prejudiced and judgemental and that “this is how it has always been” is exactly where I'd be careful. People have always been capable of prejudice, yes, but people have also changed enormously. If they hadn't, social attitudes, relationships and entire societies wouldn't change at all.
So maybe the real question isn't whether we can change people, but how much influence we actually have over their change - and where that influence ends.
Bloody It is kinda hard for me to answer. Mostly because we are talking about attitude towards specific topic which is ppl's behaviour. And I guess because lots of people are different got different temper, personality and experience life in different ways even similar events I dnt think there is some universal rule to follow. If this kind of idealism works for you and have important place in your life it seems to reasonable to follow it. But taking in account the reality, facts, numbers most ppl don't change that easily. Most doesn't even bother themselves to make an effort of changing some small things about themselves. I'd say who mostly change are some individuals. But when it comes to society the collective unconscious kick in hards.
Of course I may fully agree we can influence somebody behaviour, way of thinking, etc, but as we differ I more of the person who stands for fuck the society, take care of close ppl don't put intrest in others dnt pay attention to their opinion because these are not opinions only motions.
However what I can affirm is just that: to find the way to deal with these things which is most suitable for our persona or even nature.
Dziena hiena
I think we actually agree on a lot, even if we don't see everything exactly the same way. I understand your point about people being different and not everyone wanting to change. And honestly, I respect your approach, especially the idea of focusing on the people close to you and not letting the opinions of others control you.
Maybe we just have slightly different ways of looking at the same thing, and that's completely okay. :)
Bloody Seeing the same things same way would boring so yea I guess it is not only complete okay but even brings more fun to conversation
Cheers mate
Tak, podpisuję się pod tym wszystkimi rękami i nogami. Od dziecka nie mogę znieść tego, że wszystkim dookoła się wydaje, że coś o mnie wiedzą, zanim w ogóle zdążę się odezwać. Presja społeczna, cudze oczekiwania i normy - dawno już postanowiłam żyć mając to wszystko gdzieś.
Domi123
Dokładnie, czasem trzeba mieć to po prostu gdzieś
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